“Would you explain in a way you think I would understand?”
When someone is explaining and it is just not getting through to you.
Ask for a pause, and explain that it is not making sense to you.
Request they think about a way they can relate the idea or sentiment to you in a way you would understand.
This is a great way to express that you would like your friend to presence their understanding with you to get their point across
How to use it
Place this card on your altar or refrigerator
Prepare for spending time with someone you know it might be difficult to connect with.